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Cripple

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by Treadmarkz

There it is folks. In big bold letters. Cripple. Does it hurt anyone? No. This is a word that goes back thousands of years, and until not too terribly long ago was a perfectly noble way to describe someone either with malformed limbs, or without use of any number of their limbs. You could say it is politically incorrect, but that is all an invention of human minds. I myself have no use of my legs and I find the word “cripple” to be just fine as long as it is not used to hurt or demean, which was not its original intent.

A while back I was cutting my dad’s hair and my family and I were joking that I should go into business. But I’d have to come up with a good name for my shop. I stoicly suggested “A Cripple With a Clipper.” Why not? It tells you what you are going to see when you come through the door. Simple, no frills advertising. But it is important to remember that, as is the case with the endless titles human beings give themselves (man, woman, banker, athlete, American, dog-lover), the word “cripple” says very little when you look at the whole person. For instance, when people came this shop they’d see that I may be crippled but they should still expect an impeccable haircut, because I’m a barber.

The BBC’s OUCH! Weblog recently conducted a poll of its readers that showed respondents (some physically handicapped, some not) found the word “cripple” more offensive than “psycho” in describing disabled people. This boggles my mind! Check out the results here. Among disabled respondents, “cripple” was found to be much more offensive than “psycho” in comparison to non-disabled respondents. This really boggles my mind! Granted, we are talking about two different types of disabilities here, mental and physical, but think about it. A lot of people refer to Charles Manson, Ted Bundy and Jeff Dahmer as “psycho.” You never hear anyone say “He killed 43 people, cut them up and ate them?! What a cripple!” This shows that “psycho” is a word that people have no business using in reference to any disabled person. But the results of this survey also raises a question: Is a person without use of, or malformed, limbs really as offensive as a serial killer? The answer is no, of course.

Politically correct people try to help. “Differently abled”, for example, was thoughtfully bestowed upon people with handicaps by the US Democratic National Committee during the Reagan Administration. I wrote a post early on in this blog where I mentioned “people who decide what it is politically correct to call us.” This is exactly what I was talking about. The government telling me how I want people to describe me? No way. I am an individual, and I say there is nothing wrong with “cripple.” I do use some of the politically correct terms in this blog, but only to be understood by the general public. Of course you cannot use “cripple” for all disabilities, like the blind or deaf. And “Paraplegic” will do just fine to describe my specific case, but in terms of the all-encompassing word for the fact that I cannot use my limbs, disabled, differently abled, do not work for me. Cripple is fine.

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  1. I am with you on this one, I use the word daily, mostly joking around. Best of all I use it around all of my able bodied friends and now have them using it. Its a harmless word that yes, some disabled people still find offensive, but thats only because they are either one of those angry crippled’s, or they because there parents still tell them its a bad word.

    duseetin

    February 15, 2008 at 9:02 PM

  2. Thanks for your insight, Duseetin,

    That is what it is all about, in my opinion, some people just taking things way too seriously, and yes, a lot of people going by what they were told by their parents (or government, as I mentioned) about what is acceptable language.

    treadmarkz

    February 15, 2008 at 11:50 PM

  3. Hello, I personally don’t like the word cripple, as in my mind it makes me think “less than”. But I don’t have a disability and who cares if I like the word or not, :-) . I have a child that has a disabillity and to be honest he doesn’t care if someone would call him a cripple or not. (We actually talked about this). He knows who he is and he’s not “crippled”. Like that describes a person anyway….

    I think if my son found a t-shirt that made reference to a cripple, he would wear it and proudly I should say.

    Oh what about some other terms (jokingly of course) physically challenged. Me and my son laugh at some of the labels out there. And you know what…they are all done by people without disabilities! By far, I have more respect and admiration for those that happen to have disabilities. They are some of the coolest, humorous, inventive and humble folks I’ve ever met! By the same coin though, when I hear some able bodied person complain about their back hurting, or knees aching I tell them to suck it up. But that means when I have pains I have to suck it up too! :-)

    Keep up the great work w/this blog!

    ashley

    March 28, 2008 at 5:16 PM

  4. I used this word to describe a physically handicap person (wheelchair person) and people found it funny/offensive, I don’t know why because it is simple, basic English language. How did it ever become offensive?!

    Fred

    February 3, 2009 at 5:19 PM

  5. Crips need to stick together and determine what we want to be called before someone else figures it out for us. People from outside of groups are fond of labeling others. I don’t like handicapped and disabled, and I’m pretty sure those weren’t agreed on at the National Disability Conference where we all got a vote.

    “Cripple” holds negative connotations for the same reason “nigger” holds negative connotations. “Cripple” is what people with disabilities were being called when they were being institutionalized, beaten, euthanized, etc. Perhaps we need to shorten it to crip like the blacks shortened it to nigga, creating a term of endearment.

    This is not new. “Crip” has been in use at least since the early 90s.

    More on the ‘C’word: http://woodylassitor.wordpress.com/2009/06/22/beating-up-cripple-rendering-the-c-word-impotent/

    Woody Lassitor

    July 3, 2009 at 1:37 PM


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